Why should I?

Why should I/we accept some finding of some other 'human'?

STOP mistakes rather than SPOT mistakes

Why do people always keep telling you what you should and should not have done rather than focusing on what you should be doing?

Discussing faults of the past rather than figuring out how to avoid similar situations in the future is a waste of time. Yes, you must learn where you went wrong and how the error could have been avoided but dwelling in the past and never being able to walk out and move on is misuse of time. You keep analysing what happened and now what – arrive at no conclusion at all.
So when people come tell you things about what went wrong, the focus should be on what should be rather than on what should have been!

Learning to live

Trigger hasn’t had the rare opportunity, neither bothered to distribute the time to engage in any self-pity blogging or rather - any blogging at all. A great part of it is the blunder of none other than the trigger itself. A suffering of a great disability – a haunting weakness of not being able to say “NO”.

The trigger seems to be thinking that everything and every other person in the world deserve more importance than the trigger. The disability pierces everything beginning from the soft tissues of the lung to the vulnerable interior muscle eating up everything like it had limbs of that of the octopuses in the sea. Acceptance of the ultimate impossibility and avoiding nothing except for that one very factor of being able to express a negative response to the commandos that abuse your capabilities and live off the blood – if trigger did have any left.

The trigger seems to believe that the only cure in the world is belief itself. The trigger is led nowhere…

Having to leave mails that require a bit of reading, for later; having just enough a piece of the universe’s time to grab a meal or spring clean enough to a survivable condition.; having to put off things for ever; having nothing but the triggers weak soul to speak for it; the trigger now survives a dreadful battle at the edge of learning to live rather than living to learn….

The Ring

Even if it be made of iron or copper, it would still be priceless to me only because you gave me it… and I mean that.

Do not try this at home at anywhere else

Call a spade a spade
Say what you have to say without going in circles
Say something, mean something else
Dance standing only on a single foot
When the coffee is hot burn your fingers before you burn your lips
Think you’re alone when you’re singing
Sing in the shower
Secrets in public
Speak for the rights of the ones at lower levels
Listen to those who need listening
And if you successfully don’t do any of the above you’ll be above!

Stop with being a parrot!

Most people perceive knowledge to be a process for memory transfer from one storage device to another – this, I found out talking to a very knowledgeable colleague. Gosh, that is so wrong. knowledge is not about testing your memory power. Being able to understand and interpret it, is what counts….

The wisdom…in knowing what to do exactly at the right time and being able to take entire responsible for your actions far exceeds any other form of wisdom

The best labour saving device of today is tomorrow.

Getting rid of me

We all have an internal critic. Fighting it is hard and what’s harder is when this critic becomes external… so you satisfy yourself by feeling that what is perceived may be incorrect…. Only, when you’re not… not very sure…
Then you seek the truth of it, to correct yourself… but if it’s inborn like the prints on your fingers and when there is no way out of something that posses you beyond your control… just how do you run away from it?
Sometimes I wish I just had an ordinary life and an ordinary day. Everyday is special, unique and spontaneous; only sometimes not all that pleasing.

My life is interesting and full of surprises but then there comes a time when you wish that you were like everybody else. You wish that you were not all that perceptible. You wish that you were just a silent and passive observer of matters that are known to be ‘uncontrollable’… You don’t like what others don’t… you don’t raise issues, you sit among the so called wise accepting everything that is said… you create no confusion and you cause no heart-breaks… you just remain like the rest… more peace…. more happiness… more likable character… more everything… except myself…

2 + 2 = ?

The amount of criticism given by an average cracky individual is inversely proportional to his or her own level of self-esteem.

Your brain needs a lion

L – Love

I – Information

O – oxygen

N - Nutrition

Up next… What does your heart need?

The Spell!

Somebody please tell me… why do Americans spell differently?

Work specialization – is it a necessary evil?

The bad thing about having knowledge in a wide variety of areas is that you end up not having a very deep knowledge of any of the areas. As they say “Jack of all trades…”.

In a world where we are moving from specialization to generalization… which of the two is most important or rather successful? Deep knowledge about certain areas only or wide but not deep knowledge on many areas? As you ponder upon the question, let me leave you to believe that surveys show that successful individuals on a general basis lack in-depth knowledge about a particular subject area of concern and typically are known to be “Know alls”